OUTWIT the NARCISSIST pt1 Inside the False Discontinuous Self 1h28m
OUTWIT the NARCISSIST pt2 Dissociation, Shared Fantasy & Counters 1h32m
OUTWIT the NARCISSIST pt3 Dark Deception & Killer Instinct 1h32m
Language Traps pt1 Destroy the SNAPSHOT 1h59m
My overview of language trap tactics & counters, framed within RG’s mind game & SV Dissolving the Snapshot videos.
Sam Vaknin’s dissolving the snapshot tactic is using cognitive dissonance to frustrate a Narcissist 2m23s
When you dissolve the snapshot the narcissist is disoriented he feels totally confused, things are happening and he cannot explain them as it is mind.
your only existence is as an idealized snapshotted internal object
and suddenly this internal object is autonomous, defiant, independent, has agency and self-efficacy, defies him, disagrees with him, acts in ways which undermine and challenge the eternal object
and this is extremely disorienting
the more profound the gap between idealized internal snapshotted object and you
the more you draw away the more you drift away from the idealized internal object
the more frustrated and aggressive the narcissist becomes
and he’s going to express this frustration and this aggression with a torrent of negative sentences
So, you should pay attention to the positive sentences and the negative sentences,
You should write them down. Then what you do:
- you engage in defiance
- you negate every positive sentence
- and you uphold every negative sentence
just behave in ways which are so far removed from the idealized snapshot
that it would make it impossible for the narcissist to sustain the snapshot, the snapshot will dissolve
The more you withdraw from the idealized snapshot, the more threatened the snapshot is!
and finally under severe torsion and stress of discrepancies
the snapshot snaps and dissolves!
It’s a simple tactic, simple technique:
- Finally the narcissist will be forced to let go of the internal object
- he will be forced to confront you
- he will inevitably 100% of the time discard you
which is what you wanted
Richard Grannon - The 3 Main Mind Games played by Narcissists 17m54s
Language Traps pt2 Reactive Abuse 1h29m