OUTWIT the NARCISSIST series: Fundamentals, Get Smarter & Counters

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OUTWIT the NARCISSIST pt1 Inside the False Discontinuous Self 1h28m

OUTWIT the NARCISSIST pt2 Dissociation, Shared Fantasy & Counters 1h32m

Triple loop visuals & summary thread @ https://www.visceralgravitas.com/d/50

OUTWIT the NARCISSIST pt3 Dark Deception & Killer Instinct 1h32m

Language Traps pt1 Destroy the SNAPSHOT 1h59m

My overview of language trap tactics & counters, framed within RG’s mind game & SV Dissolving the Snapshot videos.

Sam Vaknin’s dissolving the snapshot tactic is using cognitive dissonance to frustrate a Narcissist 2m23s

When you dissolve the snapshot the narcissist is disoriented he feels totally confused, things are happening and he cannot explain them as it is mind.

your only existence is as an idealized snapshotted internal object
and suddenly this internal object is autonomous, defiant, independent, has agency and self-efficacy, defies him, disagrees with him, acts in ways which undermine and challenge the eternal object
and this is extremely disorienting

the more profound the gap between idealized internal snapshotted object and you
the more you draw away the more you drift away from the idealized internal object
the more frustrated and aggressive the narcissist becomes
and he’s going to express this frustration and this aggression with a torrent of negative sentences

So, you should pay attention to the positive sentences and the negative sentences,
You should write them down. Then what you do:

you engage in defiance

you negate every positive sentence

and you uphold every negative sentence

just behave in ways which are so far removed from the idealized snapshot
that it would make it impossible for the narcissist to sustain the snapshot, the snapshot will dissolve
The more you withdraw from the idealized snapshot, the more threatened the snapshot is!

and finally under severe torsion and stress of discrepancies

the snapshot snaps and dissolves!

It’s a simple tactic, simple technique:

Finally the narcissist will be forced to let go of the internal object

he will be forced to confront you

he will inevitably 100% of the time discard you

which is what you wanted

Richard Grannon - The 3 Main Mind Games played by Narcissists 17m54s

Language Traps pt2 Reactive Abuse 1h29m

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Mental game basics: Internal No Contact building META skills
https://www.visceralgravitas.com/d/25-internal-no-contact-increasing-mental-space-stay-in-your-lane-1029

Internal No Contact, Increasing Mental Space & “Stay In Your Lane” 58m

Advanced series on Cognitive Dissonance
https://www.visceralgravitas.com/d/84-cognitive-dissonance-the-ultimate-boundary-breaking-disrupter

Cognitive Dissonance 101 Summary clip 40s

COGNITIVE DISSONANCE Mastery Fundamentals 101 Recognition, Tolerance & Basic Counters 1h30m

Cognitive Dissonance 102 Gaming Secrets of Social Belonging, Connection & Attachment 1h30m

For more –> Advanced series on Cognitive Dissonance
https://www.visceralgravitas.com/d/84-cognitive-dissonance-the-ultimate-boundary-breaking-disrupter

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March 5, 2022 Manipulative Mind Games! Implicit Signals, Inverted Communication & Schizoid case study 1h50m

3/19 Revenge Ideation as hidden BETRAYAL WOUNDS? Hypnosis & Policing Language 1h04m

3/24 Spotting the Moral Outrage masked Contempt trap & Counters 2h01m

4/7 Seeing POWER vs falling for PERSONAL ATTACKs, Counter tactics & Case Studies 1h34m

4/16 COUNTER WILL, Passive Aggression & Ambient Abuse 1h29m

4/30 Circular Arguments 201 - Shock, Sow Doubt & Escalating Contempt 1h27m

5/14 Indirect Relational Aggression = HIDDEN MANIPULATION | Decircling counters 1h51m

5/28 DE-CIRCLING out of Circular Diversion Arguments: Spotting Monologuing & other tactics 2h22m

6/16 Common SCRIPTS used by Cry BULLIES ‘Empaths’ 1h38m