Deef Newbie can’t actually leave, so two more email replies coming up in the next post..
more replies in next post from Newbie…
I saw this Iphone commercial last night:
1m08s
The camera focuses on the most important character, which…is me.
I think this was a great metaphor for Newbie’s pronoun expertise…. it’s shifting focus onto her, but also dumping the whole world onto whoever she’s targeting with gaslighting slander…. maybe that helps amplify her attacks to appear so much stronger… all of the wrongs of the world and her whole history, is precisely targeted onto one narrow offense, of which it’s a distorted (straw man) version of a non-offence….
and she’s doing this but outwardly instead of ego-centric focus of a Narcissist
Narcissist Constant Rewriting their story & memories 47s
Instead she’s constantly over-writing other’s’ memories…. slander & gaslighting
and using denial and outrage to open up an attention/consideration door/wound to dump her toxic crap outwards…
it’s quite masterful…. as she’s likely doing it out of total ignorance….. but ignorance can be a very powerful defense… we think it’s stupid.. but ignoring is part of it, and that’s part of gray rock, shunning, social exile, etc.
And as we start to see her patterns continue, she’s starting to get boring… or we see her as a 1 trick pony.… then our natural ignoring mechanisms kick in, and we see through all the stirred up smoke, and see that there’s nothing there…. She has no substance…
I’m not fully there just yet, but I sense I’m getting closer…
