Revisiting this old thread, as it’s an earlier schizoid case study, and was an example I shared in a Sam Vaknin clip that caught SchizoidAngst’s attention and 2 comments..
I would argue his comment of
Is exactly what Sam Vaknin is describing…. or it’s a schizoid’s dominant frame that can easily deny, disown and block any external perspectives, quite effortlessly… they don’t care about the dissonance, and they put NO effort into arguing their point or connecting with others.
it is the schizoid person who cannot accept rejection and
may enact the internal obsession in the interpersonal domain
without regard for reality
typically the schizoid endeavors to completely repress the hunger for love
as long as the repression is effective
the schizoid relates to the outer object world in a realistic but emotionally shallow manner
if you’re a schizoid you will react with obsession
this obsessive fantasy gradually will impair your reality testing so dramatically
that you will try to force the fantasy on reality
you will try to enact the fantasy
you will try to carry out behaving in the real world as though your fantasy was reality
and this is very dangerous
The schizoid mode is obsessed with rejection and surprise danger (paranoia side of P-S split)…. but paradoxically or ironically… they end up connecting through others with blasting rejection & paranoia onto others…
ergo: What you disown, actually owns you…..
People who have extreme defenses of NEVER AGAIN often end up fueling repetition compulsion along with dumping or evoking that same wound onto others from their shadow….
and even when presented with a reasoned argument…. they can simply deny/split or totally disown by saying
or just absenting the conversation… dissociating.. or just out of sight.. out of mind…
I got him to reply with this:
I’d argue he’s continuing rejection/denial… and then goes God voice, dominant frame…
I probably over-escalate a bit, but if I follow his frame or appease it, it’s a lose battle as wtf is his position from his comments?? except I’ve watched some of his livestreams and videos, so can use that to fill in some gaps…