Okay… to catch up on some more Newbie responses via email… I’ll post them next and change the author to her account, so it’s not as confusing, if anyone wants to reply or comment on them…
Remember they are only words….. and she has a long established history of distorting reality…. She denies reality, relentllessly slanders others and adds on gaslighting…. she’s proven herself to be an active aggressive abuser…. with very little to no evidence of actual victim hood…
the over-selling of her victim plea card.. and then outrage when others don’t blanket accept it…is more evidence she’s a bully and an abuser….. and her joy and added energy when she attacks ghosts, shows she enjoys being a bully and abuser…. She gets energy, being a bitch…
Newbie I just wanted to apologize for acting like a horrendous bitch.
opps.. or in her words…. a horrendous bitch …. why would she give up playing that role.. she’s so good at it.. and clearly gets energy playing that role…. she probably abuses her therapist on a regular basis… and he’s probably a neurotic codependent that’s getting traumatized being on the receiving end of her abuse….
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I’m reminded of a childhood friend’s ex-wife, who showed really strong BPD traits….. she’s now in federal prison serving a 10 year term for financial fraud…. and she wasted that stolen money trying to impress people and buy friendship…she was that fucked up….
She gave me secondary PTSD which led me to exploring cluster B disorders…. and gave my friend diagnosed PTSD…. I helped guide him to finally divorcing her before the FBI charges, and her eventual jailing…. she claimed victim, while pissing off everyone on in his family… along with her own family that tried to keep pushing her trainwreck onto my friend…. encouraging them to stay together… because he was handling her fucked up mess…. lol…
Often she was abusing others out of total ignorance and obliviousness….. sometimes cuz she was trying too hard… that’s an even worse kind of abusing bully…. because it’s so hard to predict and see coming…
Oh…. and in jail she still can’t get along with others and is put in isolation….. tsk tsk.. we had hopes that maybe she could get some help in jail…. instead she’ll just get older and more pitiful….