Got this announcement from RG’s email list earlier today:
The website is closing, all products will be terminated tomorrow evening at midnight UK time.
You will have lifetime access to all products purchased before the website closing.
If you want to get something from the website act now… https://www.spartanlifecoach.com/
The REASON I have to close the website for my own mental health is shared in this video at minute 28.
In this seminar we talk about
- the remarkable similarities between codependents and narcissists.
- the formation of an “Echo Codependent” and the purpose this Codepenents “false self” has
- the self aggrandising horror of the trend of people referring to themselves as “empaths”
(please friends, dont do this, its codependency, and its nothing to be proud of)
Sounds like he could cover similar territory of my fawn self brilliant CON game but dunno, I’m passively listening while doing other stuff.
Narcissists Kill Love! Reclaim Your Authentic Self, Untangle Codependency (Belgrade Grannon 2021) 1h54m
oh… his reveal is around 27min and glosses over it for about 1 minute…
it’s covered in much more detail in earlier posts above
Deef The End of the SpartanLifeCoach Project - summarized 3m32s
Deef The end of Spartan Life Coach might seem sudden, but here’s evidence from April 2020 when he was already considering it.
or a clip from late Oct, revealing his shame from recent relationship with a narcissist, that led him into therapy… this might be the most genuine reveal:
Deef Summarizing RG’s recent breakdown, cutting out a lot of the injunctions and future focus (escape) fix its & larger society commentaries.
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haha!!
Con artist & FAKE deceptive aspect of FAWN self was mentioned at 54m29s, though inspired from the audience and NOT from RG..
so okay i’m digging it but i haven’t thought about it before
so being a codependent is fundamentally fake so then when we’re being fake we’re comfortable because we’re fake can you feel yourself becoming authentic
okay so we’re cowardly addicted manipulative fakes
love it love it that’s great well i wrote the word authentic and i didn’t think of the opposite
i don’t think of codependency as fakeness i always thought of it as like avoidant
but it is for me in my experience it’s like a reflex reaction
no don’t take it back you’re right we’re fakes no you are right
like this is the original suggestion that we’re fakes is correct
so if i was a con artist now i can get caught
so we’re back to not safety the opposite of safety is the real danger there we go so now i’m in danger
you mentioned imposter syndrome yesterday didn’t you and we decided it was probably perfectionism
but the sense of being an imposter is fundamental to codependency because we are imposters we’re pretending to be really really nice and giving whilst hoping to get what we want
through reciprocation and then if it doesn’t arrive then we’re angry and bitter and resentful