With the 30 day challenge over, RG is back to releasing content.
Interview with NBR Podcast 1h01m
Richard Grannon Exposed | The Truth behind Narcissism Expert 9m52s
This had a potentially gigantic reveal.. he likely still has a gigantic emotional button, of which he only ‘hope’ that it magically healed on it’s own???
romance i just … like historically
i hope it stopped
if the girl hits the right buttons for me
i go into a disassociated trance state
i ignore every red flag
every red flag is cute, it’s sexy, it’s funny, it’s interesting
and i always i’m thinking the same thing
it’s okay this girl is different it’s okay this girl’s different, it’s okay this girl’s different
Easiest Way To Leave The Narcissist (Short Video) 1m57s
Interesting 2 minute video.. 5 steps..
The Borderline Personality Disorder Fraud | Misdiagnosis/Stigma Controversy 46m02s
Watching this video now, he’s making an argument that BPD isn’t a precise diagnosis, but dunno if he’ll offer anything new here. But it looks like he’s thought about the issue before diving into this video.
why does this type of borderline use bait and switch tactics?
bait and switch could be she or he starts a conversation
where they joke about their own trauma they joke about their own self-harm they say something like
this is actually based on a real conversation from when i was at boarding school
a girl describing herself as a ping cushion because she would listen to the cure
and then she would either cut or hurt herself and she laughed about it and said it to me several times
and then one day i was very young,14. I liked her because she was a goth and she was beautiful and mysterious
i said it back to her and she went she went insane she went crazy
how dare you say that to me! How dare you laugh at my mental illness!
i’m on the verge of suicide!
but i was like but you said it to me and laughed several times!??
Making me think this was something you found funny and i said it back to you
that’s a bait and switch scenario
I’m skeptical on this bait and switch…. I see RG also somewhat mis-reading her energy or vibe.. or possibly talking to a different part…. I’d frame it more as BPD splitting, so she saw him as all bad and all evil… so it looked to him like bait & switch… while I’d frame it as all good vs all bad…. or she might’ve had some DID type issues too..
why bait and switch? why attack?
because it is the only way that this individual has learned to ameliorate the intense feelings of shame and humiliation
the game is i draw you in i get you to drop your ego boundaries i get you to drop your shield your armor
and then i stab you in the back with the poison blade
when dealing with this type of borderline you feel slimed
this is a term i got from chris godinez
Lol…… me thinks he’s still somewhat confused with BPD’s inner world here….. I’d argue that they do the behaviors, but the motives he’s describing.. they’re not there… it’s just pure chaos and drowning from their inner world… and poison blade is the devalue side of splitting… and yes it feels slimey… but it’s not telegraphed as he’s describing…
sure they’re aware and get good at it… but I don’t think they’re that demonic like, it’s more cuz they very quickly dysregulate and regress…
everything is a cry for help
yes i know i know and i know your frustration, believe me i know, but they’re there
i wouldn’t say they’re terrified of help
they’re terrified of the potential exposure of being the person who was helped
so you drag them out the water they’re going to feel very very …
they don’t want to be out the water they’re comfy in there
Lol….this is amazing.. he’s really super victim blaming this vicious flavor of BPD…. but I think it’s a misread… I don’t see them crying for help, I see them crying for someone to listen to their monologue.. someone to decide shit for them, so they can blame them if it doesn’t go right… yes it can seem like they don’t know how to act like someone who’s not a victim, but it’s cuz they’re drowning… (from their perspective)..
this is a narcissistic delusion i am special my victimhood is special i need borderline supply
which is narcissistic supply but tinged with pity tinged with sympathy and
i must at all times be the biggest victim in the room
that’s my conjecture that’s my opinion
the exploitation is baked into the cake
they can’t operate with people unless they’re stealing from them in some way
they have to be taking from other people without their consent to win to win to win
they’re losers they know they are they’re deeply deeply deeply mortifyingly ashamed of it and
they’re constantly trying to get one little hook up the dominance hierarchy
Lol…. wow… this is a really really vicious painting of BPDs….