Bradford If you dont care - why should we?
Newbie You shouldn’t care. I didn’t even mean you should.
This is the only thing that you have focussed on - you have dismissed or blocked everything else in my comment to you about caring about how you are perceived and how challenging it is for others.
Newbie And I’m glad your so confident in your judgment of human behaviors, especially online I imagine that’s tough. Although you’re off.
So, you have taken a swipe at me and told me that Im “off” (wrong) and to shut up basically which I suspect is because I challenged your narrative. The rest of this is just you saying what a nice person you are and a victim plea and “innocent and lost”. You seem to be constantly needing to tell people how nice you are.
Newbie Don’t hate me for telling you. I don’t want anyone to do anything for me or make everything better like magic. That has never been how anything has happened in my life nor what I have ever expected. I genuinely didn’t mean to bother anyone. I never refused to answer a question etc so idk what I was supposed to share without over sharing. I didn’t try to make everything about me at all. I’m sorry I made anyone feel that way.
So no. No one should care or owes anything to me to care and no one should bother.
You never answer a direct question rather you focus on 1 aspect only providing it works with your narrative that @Deef pointed out earlier “innocent and lost”. Everything else is dismissed, ignored or blocked.
You dont seem to be able to absorb any information that is offered or any feedback. This makes 2 way communication almost impossible because you are always running the narrative and not absorbing anything except how it works from that perspective.
Im attempting to unpack this one last time;
I asked you if it bothered you how you were received, you said that you didnt really care. You also said that I shouldn’t care either but that I am wrong and to shut up and thats OK because you are a super nice person and a victim.
There is not much to work with here - and that actually fits with your narrative which also has “no one understands me” in it as well as “innocent and lost”.
